By: Alva Ree

Hi, I’m Dr. Ayu Widya—doctor, mother of five, cultural advocate, and someone who deeply believes that beauty is more than skin-deep. If you’re reading this, maybe you’re on your journey to self-love and health or just looking for a little glow-up inspiration. Wherever you are, I want to share what I’ve learned—not just as a dermatologist, but as a woman who’s lived through challenge, growth, and change.

Here are my lessons and recommendations to help you feel beautiful, confident, and empowered every day.

1. Honor Your Culture. It’s Part of Your Power

One of the beautiful things about us as women is our origin. Where we come from, the traditions we carry, and the stories our grandmothers told us—they matter. I often wear traditional clothing from Indonesia, such as the red Baju Bodo from the Bugis people or Bazar Galung Pancar Matahari from the Banjar culture, not just to look elegant, but to feel connected.

Your culture is your crown. Whether you come from a big city or a small village, let it guide your sense of identity. Let it remind you that you don’t need to look like someone else to be beautiful.

2. Your Skin Deserves Respect, Not Perfection

In my clinic, I meet women from all walks of life. Some want to treat melasma, others want to brighten their complexion, and many are influenced by international beauty standards, especially Korean trends. But here’s the truth I want every woman to know:

Healthy skin is not white skin.

It’s hydrated. Even-toned. Calm. Radiant. And above all—safe.

That’s why I created a range of luxury booster treatments designed not only to enhance beauty but also to support healing. Many of my clients are managing autoimmune conditions, diabetes, or recovering from cancer. I developed these solutions with their unique journeys in mind, aiming to help them regain a sense of confidence.

One of our advanced techniques? Using your blood to create a personalized anti-aging serum. It’s as safe as it is powerful—because beauty should never come at the cost of your health.

3. Be Curious. Learn. Travel. Grow

I started my journey in Kotabaru, South Kalimantan—a small place, but with big dreams. I finished high school in two years and completed medical school in five and a half years. Then I traveled—Europe, Korea, Bogotá, Miami, New York. Every place added something to my soul and my skillset.

I still attend the world’s biggest aesthetic medicine conference in Paris every year. Why? Because learning never stops. If you want to feel beautiful, keep growing. Curiosity is the ideal kind of self-care.

4. Balance Is the Real Flex

Yes, I’m a doctor. Yes, I’ve worked hard. But I’m also a wife and the proud mother of five. People often ask me: “How do you do it all?” And my answer is simple—I don’t do it all. I do what matters most.

Some days that means I’m in the clinic until late. Other days, I’m braiding my daughter’s hair and helping with homework. The key is not to chase perfection—it’s to stay in alignment with your values. For me, success is being able to have a career and be present for my family.

5. Let Go of the Pressure. Embrace Your Season

I know we get tired. I know we burn out. And I know that social media sometimes makes you feel like you’re falling behind. But let me tell you, rest is not failure. Taking a break is not a weakness.

Just don’t stay down too long.

Get back up.

Your strength is your power.

Being beautiful is not about your makeup routine or your Instagram photos. It’s about how you carry yourself, how you treat your body, and how gently you speak to your soul.

6. Beauty Is a Lifestyle—Not a Procedure

Want glowing skin? Start with water, movement, sleep, and love.

Want to feel better in your body? Don’t punish it—nourish it.

Want to stay youthful? Think long-term. Eat well, manage stress, and invest in treatments that enhance—not alter—you.

In my clinic, I don’t just offer fillers and thread lifts. I talk to women about their confidence, fears, and health because true beauty begins when you see yourself through kind eyes.

7. Believe in the Future. Push for Innovation

As a doctor, I hope Indonesia—and the world—continues to embrace new medical technology. From cancer care to diabetes treatment to aesthetics, innovation gives us choices. It gives us hope. That’s the future I dream of: one where every woman, regardless of her background or health condition, can access the tools she needs to thrive.

My Final Message to You:

You are not “too late.”

You are not “too much.”

You are not “not enough.”

You are exactly where you’re supposed to be.

And you have every right to feel beautiful, powerful, and whole.

So wear that bold red dress.

Sign up for the course.

Call your doctor.

Take care of your skin.

Drink your water.

And don’t forget—

Be brave. Be beautiful. The world needs your light.

 

Disclaimer: The content shared in this article reflects the personal insights and advice of Dr. Ayu Widya, M.M., and is intended for informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or treatment. Results may vary, and individual experiences with beauty treatments may differ.

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